Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Friday, January 6, 2017

How to get a US tourist visa?


Perhaps, one of the most nerve-wracking interviews you will ever have is during your first job application. Well, not until you experience going to the US Embassy to get a tourist visa. This can be the toughest interview, especially for Filipinos whose reputation has been tainted by many fellow kababayans going TNT (tago ng tago) in America. After all, America is the land of opportunity.

We have heard of terrifying stories of many Filipinos getting denied, even after exerting so much effort and money (yes, the application fee is worth P8,000!) just to get that most elusive, most coveted visa in the world. But fear not, before you even apply, study and do your research on how to successfully ace the application process. Gauge yourself before making this big decision; go ask yourself this question, “Am I ready to apply now? Am I confident with my current circumstances?” If the answer is yes, then proceed! If unsure, then maybe you can wait for a little more time to get settled.

I just recently applied for a US tourist visa (type B1/B2) and I submitted my DS-160 online application form in October 2016 (you may apply online here). But before I can be scheduled for an interview, I need to settle the application fee worth $160 USD (download the MRV payment slip here) and pay it at the nearest BPI branch. Soon after, I called the US Embassy hotline: 976-8500 (to 8502) and I was greeted by a friendly Filipina customer service agent, who gladly helped me pick the right schedule. The earliest interview schedule she could find for me was December 5, 2016 at 10:15 AM—exactly two months after I submitted my application form.

Something happened between October and December though—which is the election of Donald Trump as president of the United States. We all know that he is not as friendly to ‘immigrants’ as President Obama was. So at that time I told myself, “oh no, I’m not gonna get that visa!” adding more jitters to my already nervous self. But then hey, I’m not applying for an immigrant visa! I just wanted to tour America and see my relatives there again.

The first time I went to the States was with my whole family back in 1995 and I went back again in 1997 and that was the last. I was really young back then but the fun memories remain with me. Spending two summers in California for vacation was pure bliss.

At the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco, California in 1995

My family (US tour, summer of 1995)

With my Lolo Oscar (standing, second from left) and relatives

At Lake Tahoe which is located between California and Nevada

My US visa expired in 2002 and my dad and I applied for renewal in 2004. My dad’s visa was renewed and mine was denied. The American consul did not ask me any questions at all! I was like, what? why? What did I do? So ever since I just invented reasons in my head. Maybe I got denied because of the post 9/11 thing, or maybe because at that time I was still a minor and the consul must have thought I might seek employment in the States when I turn 18. But I really feel that it’s because of my dad’s way of answering the consul’s questions. Yup, sorry Pop. It was you. Lol.

I think my dad was not very confident and I think he downgraded himself during the interview, for instance, when asked about his profession, he said he was a ‘farmer.’ He could have said he was a businessman who owns farmlands in the province, which is what he really was. He also did not mention that he is a politician and was a former mayor of our town in Tarlac, which could have spelled so much difference (it meant that he had strong social ties to the Philippines). As a result, his visa was renewed with only one year validity and mine was not.

So since then, whenever my family goes to the US, I was left alone. You can probably remember Macaulay Culkin in Home Alone. That was my favorite movie when I was a kid. That’s like me, only there is no snow in the Philippines.

Therefore, the interview portion is the make-or-break part of your US visa application process, so you better start preparing for all kinds of questions that may be asked to you (like, why should you be the next Miss Universe? Lol).

Seriously now, below is the list of questions that were asked to me during the interview and the answers I gave:

1. What’s your full name? (Good thing I didn’t forget my name)

2. Where in the States are you going? (Vallejo, California)

3.  Who are you visiting there? (My uncle)

4.  Who are you travelling with? (my family)

5.  How long are you staying? (two weeks)

6. When are you leaving? (specific date)

7. When are you coming back? (specific date)

8.  Who is paying for your trip? (I am)

9.  What countries have you been to? (I only mentioned the top three countries I quickly remembered at that time: Japan, China, and the US)

10.  When was the last time you went to the States? (1997)

11. What’s your profession? (public relations executive)

12. How much is your monthly income? (confidential for this blog ha ha!)

13. How long have you been with your company? (four years)

14.  Do you have kids? (none)

15. What’s your dad’s name? (Noel Antonio)

16. What’s his profession? (vice mayor)

The consul was looking at his computer most of the time, researching my files perhaps and my dad’s. After a few seconds, the magic words came out of his mouth, “Your visa is approved, you will get your passport back in a week, thank you.”

I walked out of the embassy singing, “I’m dreaming of a white Christmas” and I ordered a lot of food at the restaurant across the street where I parked my car. I was so happy!!! Finally, I can go to the States again! After almost 20 years! I messaged my relatives abroad. They were so happy, too! I called my mom, who even prayed the Novena for me to pass the interview. Lol.

Now, let’s look back at the question and answer portion. Here are some reminders for you to ace that interview:

1. Dress up properly (wear smart casual clothes; not too formal and not too casual either, just make sure it’s comfortable to help you relax).

2. Be pleasant, freshen up and smile! (invite all the positivism on that day).

3.  Arrive early (my interview was at 10:15 AM and I was there at 8 AM, but mind you, you are not allowed to loiter or wait outside the embassy, so I just stayed at the Starbucks across the street. You can start falling in line 30 minutes before your scheduled interview).

4. Don't forget to bring your US Visa Appointment Confirmation form, the DS-160 Confirmation form and the the MRV Payment receipt.

5. Prepare all the necessary supporting documents that may come handy during the interview, just in case the consul asks you to show them (BIR income tax return, bank certificate, certificate of employment or enrollment, NSO birth certificate, credit card statements, old passports, affidavit of loss for old passports and two 2x2 colored photos with white background)


I placed all of my documents inside this file briefcase

I even put labels on each document so that I won't rattle searching for it just in case the consul asks me for it.

6.  Be confident but not overconfident, the consul might think you are up to something. Don’t be too humble either, the key is to highlight all your strengths and to be natural. (Practice your conversational English with your friends, coworkers).

7.  Don’t appear rehearsed or hyper (naka ilang kape ka?). For example, when greeted by the consul with a “good morning,” just greet back with a “good morning,” too. Don’t say, “Good morning! How are you today? You’re looking great! You are so beautiful!”—cringe!!! What are you even thinking?

8.  Provide short and concise answers. Americans are straightforward and they surely do not want to hear your Maalaala Mo Kaya story. The longer your answer, the more that it would look like you are hiding something (take a look at how short my answers were).

9. Be truthful! Don’t say something that would raise a feeling of doubt. The consuls are trained to read body language and tone of voice. They would know if you are lying.

10. Prepare a list of questions in your mind and internalize on your answers. Do not memorize! Otherwise, you will just forget them in your nervousness.

11. Don’t eat exotic food and dairy products before the interview! (I ordered pandesal and Americano coffee at Starbucks with no milk! And yes, lol to the Americano coffee. I told you, invite all the positive energies on your interview day).   

12. Go to the toilet first before the interview, do what you need to do (you don’t want to be interviewed while natatae, right?)

13.  Lastly, prepare yourself for whatever the outcome is (no matter how good you are, accept that there are certain things that are beyond your control).

Based on my own research, here are other possible questions that may be asked, that were not asked to me:

1.  Do you have a girlfriend/ boyfriend? (for single folks)

2.   Are you part of the LGBT community? (because America has same-sex marriage)

3. Why do you want to go to the States? (Just tell your true intentions! Don’t invent reasons)

4. Why do you keep coming back to the States? (for frequent US travelers)

5. How come you stayed for 5-6 months? What did you do? (for those who maximize their 6-month allowable period of stay per entry)

6. Why are you renewing your visa only now? (for those who have not renewed in a long time)

7.  Do you have immediate family members in the US? (is your mom, dad, brother, sister in the US?—say the truth, their records will reveal it anyway)

8. What do you do in your job? (make sure you have substantial knowledge on your field of work. I heard of a seaman getting denied after he was asked about a part of a ship and he could not describe it)

Many Filipinos focus on why they should be granted a visa, but I think you should also think of the reasons on why your application will be denied, so that you can already address these issues now.

On judgement day, all you have to do is prove that you have strong social and economic ties (stable job and financial capability) in the Philippines. Good luck on your application! May God bless you and may God bless the United States of America! Ha ha!

At Yosemite Park in 1997

With my cousin, Tiffany

With my mom at Los Angeles Airport, 1997

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Thursday, December 31, 2015

Japan, Japan!!!

It has always been my dream to go to Japan. Growing up in the Philippines, I've always watched anime! Hence, I got familiar with Japanese culture through Slam Dunk, Yuyu Hakusho (Ghost Fighter), Pokemon, Dragon Ball Z, and more recently, Naruto and Death Note, to name just a few.

I went to Japan last October 10 to 19, 2015 to celebrate my birthday week. I splurged. So this travel itinerary may not be advisable when on a budget. I maximized my Visa and Master credit cards (don't do this at home, lol) on top of my JPY 80,000 pocket money.

My flight was from NAIA Manila to Osaka Kansai Airport; the flight was only 3.5 hours long and it was already 8:30 PM when we landed in Kansai. This is my first travel abroad (and alone!) after my trip to Singapore in 2009 and in the US (many years ago) and so I was extremely excited! As we were about to land, I was peeking outside my window and Osaka's skyline at night was just breathtaking to look at. "I am in Japan, I am in Japan!!! Un-be-ri-ba-be-ra (unbelievable)!"

When I got outside the airport, the cold weather dawned on me, it was already October and winter is just around the corner. I immediately saw Burger King and ordered a burger value meal as I was very hungry! At first, I was not familiar with the Japanese yen (JPY) so when the cashier gave me coins as change after I paid a 1,000 bill, I was shocked! 1,000 yen is equivalent to 400 Philippine pesos (PHP). Damn, that was an expensive burger. Well, welcome to Japan! :) 

I was going to reside in a condominium booked thru Airbnb located somewhere in Namba, Osaka. I will be meeting Ivy who is coming from Tokyo, at Namba Station--a good 45 minute-train ride from Kansai Airport (costs 930 Yen) whew! Another thousand bucks taken away from me.

During the train ride, even though it was already dark, I kept looking outside the window, carefully looking at the houses--the neighborhood--in Japan, something I only used to visualize through the countless anime series I've seen. When I got to Namba Station, Ivy was nowhere to be found. I panicked! "Oh no! What do I do now?" I got no data on my phone, no wifi access at that time. Luckily, as I was about to pick up the payphone (yes, they still have it in Japan--old-school!), I saw Ivy, we grabbed some food and took the night off.

Day 1: Osaka City Tour

Ivy and I woke up early to meet another friend of mine, Jendell, who has been in Japan for two years now. Our first stop was at Abeno Harukas, the tallest building in Japan at 984 feet (built in 2014).

And then we realized we haven't eaten breakfast yet so we grabbed some onigiri (rice + toppings wrapped in nori) at the Family Mart nearby. Wow. It's my first time to ever try onigiri in my life. It was heaven to my taste buds!
Image source: isitveganjapan.com

Our next stop was at Shinsekai, an old district in Osaka, that houses some delectable cuisines. After all, Osaka is the culinary capital of Japan. Yum!

On our way to the Osaka Castle, we chanced upon a beer festival, where we gulped gallons of beer in various flavors (okay, gallon is an overstatement). I'm feeling so lucky on my first day in Japan!

Ah at last, we arrived at the historic and scenic Osaka Castle (Osakajo), which was built in 1583 but due to wars, it was subjected to continuous destruction and countless rebuilds. Today, it remains a proud cultural tourist spot.
From the top: me posing before the bridge, the castle's gate, Jendell and Ivy by the river, and Osaka's view from the top of the castle. Osakajo is a fortress in the middle of the city surrounded by a lake designed as additional protection during the warring era.

 
Posing in front of the Osakajo; Jendell and I with a Samurai!!!

After Osakajo, we went to NHK Osaka, one of Japan's national broadcasting companies, where we toured a mini museum of television. We didn't stay here long since we can already hear our stomachs rumble.

While we were walking on the way to the restaurant, I noticed that I kept seeing this yellow lane on the sidewalk, so I asked Jendell, "What the hell are these yellow lines for?"
Jendell: "Oh, that is like a foot Braille for the blind people, so they can travel with a guide even if they are alone"----waaah!! First world problem! Solved!!! Japan is just so advanced.

So after all that walk, we rewarded ourselves at a traditional sushi house--where sushi eternally comes out from a rotating belt. Check it out: "Itedakemasu!"
I couldn't remember how much sushi I downed that lunch... All I remember is I got so full. Authentic sushi, finally!

After lunch, we went inside a mall. I can't remember its name 'cause it was connected to the underground train station, where there are plenty of boutiques. The entire passage was filled with various stores, restaurants, cafes, souvenir shops, etcetera.
 
Ah, first day in Japan and I got to see all these high-tech stuff; a virtual tuxedo, an electric sports car, and a robot assistant!

As the sunset was drawing near, we went up the Umeda Sky Building, where we met the cold mist and enjoyed the spectacular 360-degree view of the city.
Please excuse my emo moment at the love lock found in the rooftop: "Can you 'fill' my heart?"


When evening came, we went to our final stop for the day, the Dotonbori at Minami (Namba), where I finally got to see the famed Glico Man!
Ivy and I, munching on our authentic takoyaki.
It is less salty than what's available in the Philippines, and the octopus filling inside was quite generous as well! Wait, this is just our pre-game before the main course!

We ate at a Japanese curry restaurant, I forgot what it's called. I was too hungry to take photos at this time so I just ate. Besides, my phone was already low batt.


This is what's left of me after a long day of walking, eating and drinking:

End of day 1. Tired yet Happy
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